28 July 2010

TO MELAKA WITH LOVE

salam and hello too...
last Sunday emill went to a kenduri at Melaka. After that mommy and paksu took emill to Taman Rempah. emill rode on a cruise tau..sangat menakutkan pada mulanya...emill hugged mama kuat-kuat. tapi selepas beberapa minit berlalu..................

time ni dia dah berani sikit-sikit dah..so wan pengang emill dan emill mengadap ke sungai.

baru balik dari kenduri..dengan panas terik kami pun dengan selambanya naik bot dengan berbaju kurung..

antara bangunan yang terdapat di tebing sungai...

melaka negeri bersejarah...

murals...

emill memulakan plan bertindaknya setelah memastikan keadaan adalah selamat di dalam bot..owwwwhhhh dear.

22 July 2010

superboy

he is my superboy!! (my superman is my superboy's babah.^_^)
he is my superlasak superboy in a car.
he is super restless..
he wants to touch every single thing.
when we forbid him to touch the gear, his eyes will roll over to something else and his hands will be so quick to touch things aimed.

there was one time when we were travelling for two hours trip and he did not even sit tightly for even 5 seconds. he kept on begging me to sit on his babah's lap.


time dia meronta-ronta nak duduk kat bawah kaki lah yang payah. terpaksalah babah marahkan emill. yang lawaknya lepas tu saya suruh dia sebut "babah..babah"..dia tak mahu panggil babah pun ...yang buat my hubby dan saya tersenyum semula bila dia kata "no..no..no.." siap dengan goyang jari telunjuk lagi. hihi..pandai merajuk dengan babah taknak sebut nama babah cakap ''no..no..noo.." pulak. 


well, he will always be my superboy..




my superboy with his actions in a car
p/s: tak lama lagi nak bulan puasa..tahun ni berpuasa emill dah cerdik. tahun lepas dia duduk dalam walker lagi time kami berbuka..tahun ni mesti riuh..baru sorang nih...tapi seronok!!

15 July 2010

orkid!! tak tung tak tung..

ni nak cerita sedikit tentang aktiviti kami hujung minggu. sangat penat pada hari itu..memang malam tu kami bertiga tidur lena.

 we went to putrajaya..there was karnival orkid.

 emill's babah who is so into flowers terutamanya bunga kertas dan orkid.memang rasanya dah beratus ribu duit bunga-bunga babah emill di kampung. owh..kami tunggu selama 45 minit untuk babah memilih orkid. emill pun sudah resah...huh, men when they are shopping............

proses memboloskan diri


tak tahan lama duk dalam stroller..emill pun memboloskan diri dan mula pergi celah2 bunga

walking with his babah

emill sekarang suka tonton barney and friends. dia juga suka cakap ''tak tung..tak tung..tak tung" tak tahulah apa maknanya.. :)

10 July 2010

ouchhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

 9th july 2010 jumaat

hubby: buku hospital anak ader kat ner?
me: ada ngan een.nape yang?
hubby:nak bawak anak gi cucuk
me: ooowwwwwwwwwhh.(oo yang panjang dan sounds tenang.gulps!!)

i was at my working place on that moment. terkejut sebenarnye sebab hubby nak pergi berdua je ngan emill..selalu kami bertiga pergi. tapi awal pagi jumaat semalam hubby nak gi  ngan emill je. dahlah emill memang takkan duduk dalam child seat. okies so i just tarik nafas panjang-panjang.i bukan apa..lagipun ini bukan kali pertama dia disuntik tapi..........

macam2 cerita i dengar dari ibu-ibu lama yang berpengalaman tentang imunisasi budak 18 bulan ni. my colleagues cakap nanti anak tak boleh jalan dua tiga harilah sebab kaki sakit, demam teruk la..bla bla bla...since it would be emill's last immunisation before he reaches primary school so i  was very concerned about the effects. so as the first time mom (ada ke istilah ibu kali pertama??hahaha), i kept on reminding my hubby tentang kesakitan yang amat yang bakal anak hidapi. i yang kat tempat kerja risau sebab tak dapat bersama-sama emill di hospital.babah yang hantar sebab babah emill kerja flexible time so time dia ada masa pagi jumaat tu je. after  menunggu panggilan dari my hubby untuk mengetahui keadaan emill dicucuk, my hubby pun telefon..

pic ni babah snap. tangan doc, jarum dan peha emill irtzaz


me: hows' emill yang?
hubby: okey je dia, saya umpan dia ngan lollipop. dia nangis tapi bila cepat-cepat bagi lollipop terus diam
me: gulps!!(anakku makan lollipop!) yang..manis tu..
hubby: takpe ni last bagi dia
me: (hahahah..fussy nye aku..anak nak lollipop pun takble ke..). sakit tak kaki dia?
hubby: ok je dia jalan..kuar dari bilik doktor happy je dia 
me: (tentulah happy..sudah dikaburi dengar si manis lollipop). 

alhamdulilah..balik je dari kerja terus jemput emill..badan dia suam sikit je tapi pengasuh dah bagi ubat. malam tu dia tidur lena..takdak demam or jalan terhencot-hencot. alhamdulilah



09 July 2010

mendidik my emill tentang empati

emotional health and well-being experts:
Empathy is the ability to put yourself in another's place and to take that perspective into account in your relationship with the other person. Empathy is caring about the answer to the question, "How would I feel if I were in her shoes?" Unlike skills that require abstract thought, such as mathematics or reading, empathy is a way of relating to others. It cannot be taught formally, but is learned by imitating those who are important to us.

You need to set the example — be empathetic and caring to your child and others, and he will learn. Because he loves you, believes you are perfect, and wants to be just like you, he will grow up wanting to treat herself and others with the same loving kindness he gets from you. By understanding your child's needs and responding to them in a loving way, you teach her to understand and love herself and to understand and cherish others.


It's also important to account for your child's developmental immaturity. Infants and young children normally base their sense of well-being on their ability to get what they want when they want it. The toddler or preschooler who wants a toy will grab it, whether or not it is attached to another child, and she won't want to share a favorite toy with a friend who asks for it. This is normal behavior for her age, and you do not need to worry that if you don't come down hard on her she will grow up to be selfish and uncaring.



In reality, your child will not be ready to be a sharing, caring friend until after he turns 3. At that point, he will share because (most of the time) his friends will be more important to him than his possessions. So you don't need to try to teach your child about the feelings and rights of others. Just continue to love, care for, and enjoy him. By imitating you, he will learn to treat others with the same consideration.

this is a good thought i guess..... emill must grow up as an empathy man tau....be a gentleman!!

06 July 2010

kiss


since last week i got flu. it means it has been a week i haven't kissed my boy emill irtzaz. scared if he got affected. last time i just kissed him and the effect was he suffered with flu for two weeks. the fact is he refuses to take his medicine. that's the major problem that we face when emill got fever, flu or cough.mama and wan tak sampai hati nak paksa emill makan ubat so we always have to wait for babah. only babah dares to spoonfeed emill. he only cries for awhile then..dush dush...he gets back to his normal routine walking around the house, touching this and that, kicking balls, 'bouncing' and all sort of things. mama does not mind ahh having such restless kids around because that means they are healthy children but emill must behave in front of others ok.

last friday i took emill to see a doctor for his 1y6mths' immunisation injection. unfortunately the doctor was not around on that day. something funny happened there when emill suddenly showed his ''itchy and cheeky smile'' when a group of cute kakak jururawat passed by us. with his body gestures lagi!! my cousin and i could not stop laughing seeing this. even towards us he never smiled that way. owh please dear you should be more macho next time..jual mahal sikit tau..(huh, serius nye i)

now emill has become very active. he cannot sit even for a second. if we are relaxing in front of the tv, he will ask us to follow him. babah pun boleh cair when he says ''jommm arrrrrrrrrr'' (sambil rengek2) this is really a trademark of emill. walaupun babah dah baring kepenatan tapi when emill buat aje trademark  dia nih..babah akan terus follow aje emill like being hypnotized. wan pun penat melayan kerenah emill. usually my husband will send emill to the babysitter's house because i go to work earlier than him. but if babah has to go out before mama then wan will send emill.

when mama has fully recovered from flu, the first thing mama wanna do is kissing emill irtzaz. :) really miss doing that.

okies that's all for this entry. got to go!!...
salam.

01 July 2010

gigi geraham sulung

babah: emill, open your mouth

emill: (hesitating to open his mouth)

babah: (peeking into emill's mouth)

babah: yang...dah ada dah gigi geraham emill

me: mana..tak perasan pun kan..entah bila tumbuhnya..tapi kecik lagi ek..patut la sakit dia mengigit sekarang..

emill sudah ada gigi geraham..very tiny one.sebelah kanan (if dari posisi emill) sebelah kiri (if dari arah kita yang melihat). tajam dan kecil aje. gigi atas masih lagi empat batang. gigi bawah pun begitu.

this is how he looks like when he is thinking something jengg.. jenggg ..jeng....yes..mama can smell something fishy from your look...nak buat apa tu ye??? the mark on his forehead was there since he was born.


when he was 4 months old..so serious???with his babah. the strawberry spot on his head dah hilang.alhamdulilah.

wajah riang dua beranak sebab dapat jenjalan di taman bunga...

with his mama yang kelihatan chubby and gemok...so gloomy je muka?? (ini gambar 14 bulan yang lalu..lama dah nih hahaha..''cuba nak bagitau sekarang dah kurus la tuh'' kata anda2 semua dalam hati)

rasanya kami anak beranak nih memang suka kaler merah la sebab kebanyakkan baju kami bila dikaji tengok semula banyak kaler api nih..dari emill umur 4 bulan sampai lah sekarang (gambar kat atas sekali) baju dia kaler merah (awas bukan baju yang sama ye)...okies sekian.

p/s: hari ini saya selsema. dalam bulan ni je dah dua kali selsema.moga emill tak dijangkiti jugak.

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